What is Domestic Violence?

The government defines domestic violence as "Any incident of threatening behaviour, violence or abuse (psychological, physical, sexual, financial or emotional) between adults who are or have been intimate partners or family members, regardless of gender or sexuality." This includes issues of concern to black and minority ethnic (BME) communities such as so called 'honour killings'

Research shows that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men are subject to domestic abuse in their lifetime.

If you need to talk to someone about a violent or abusive relationship, or about your own abusive behaviour, or you need advice or practical assistance, there are a number of support services who can help.

If you find yourself in immediate danger, contact the police on 999.

A new booklet for male victims of domestic violence has been produced by the DVIRP . The booklet, entitled "It happens to us too!" is also available by calling the Domestic Violence Helpline on 0116 255 0004.

Victims of domestic violence often find it very difficult to leave their abuser, particularly where there are children involved. The Women's Aid website explains more about issues for women, while the Mens Advice Line website talks about the issue facing male victims.